girls do think about sex and marriage. seriously.
well,i dun really take it seriously when suddenly one of my friend suddenly came across about this topic. hahaha.. it's kindda funny to think tho. well, we're still 19. but on deep thinking, another 7 or 8 years, we all have probability of getting married. 8 years is not a long period. it's just a blink of eyes. u won't even notice that time actually passed very quickly. oke. back to the main topic. well, most girls about my age when talked about marriage, we all think dress, pelamin and how grand it is. hahahaha.. i'm thinking the same also. but this one friend of mine is really mature on thinking. she have thought beyond, like what kind of husband she would wish to get, or how she would treat her husband. it not just normal treat like serve tea after the husband went back home from work. its far, far beyond it. she have thought of how to make the marriage to be fun everyday, how to treat the husband so that the husband wont feel bored and seek another wife, its more to sex actually. well, maybe some people would think she was been thinking too much. but for me, she kindda true. study is my main priority. but you cant avoid thinking about marriage. like i said earlier, 8 years is no long time to wait.
to be honest,i'm really curious what kind a husband i would get. a doctor maybe? or engineer? or maybe i would not getting married at all? OMG! minta jauh2x~!! one thing that God promise us is good woman is made for a good man only. that is important. so, be nice. then u would have nice husband in return.
pray everyday that u're jodoh is someone nice and religious so that he can lead to ur God's path. marriage is not a something u can play about. it's a bout giving ur love to someone and having a commitment to something. oke. stop thinking too deep. focus on ur AS exam first.
Bismillahirrahmaanirrahiim...
Ya Allah jika aku jatuh cinta,
cintakanlah aku pada seseorang yang melabuhkan cintanya padaMu,
agar bertambah kekuatanku untuk menyintaiMu
Ya Muhaimin, jika aku jatuh hati,
izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut padaMu
agar tidak terjatuh aku dalam jurang cinta nafsu...
Ya Rabbana ,jika aku jatuh hati
jagalah hatiku padanya agar tidak berpaling daripada hatiMu.....
Ya Rabbul Izzati ,jika aku rindu ,
rindukanlah aku pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalan Mu....
Ya Allah ,jika aku menikmati cinta kekasihMu
janganlah kenikmatan itu melebihi kenikmatan indahnya bermunajat di
sepertiga malam terakhirMu
Ya Allah , jika aku jatuh hati pada kekasihMu
jangan biarkan aku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam perjalanan panjang
menyeru manusia kepadaMu....
Ya Allah jika Kau halalkan aku merindui kekasihMu
jangan biarkan aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan aku pada cinta hakiki
dan rindu abadi hanya kepadaMu......
Amin.....
well,i dun really take it seriously when suddenly one of my friend suddenly came across about this topic. hahaha.. it's kindda funny to think tho. well, we're still 19. but on deep thinking, another 7 or 8 years, we all have probability of getting married. 8 years is not a long period. it's just a blink of eyes. u won't even notice that time actually passed very quickly. oke. back to the main topic. well, most girls about my age when talked about marriage, we all think dress, pelamin and how grand it is. hahahaha.. i'm thinking the same also. but this one friend of mine is really mature on thinking. she have thought beyond, like what kind of husband she would wish to get, or how she would treat her husband. it not just normal treat like serve tea after the husband went back home from work. its far, far beyond it. she have thought of how to make the marriage to be fun everyday, how to treat the husband so that the husband wont feel bored and seek another wife, its more to sex actually. well, maybe some people would think she was been thinking too much. but for me, she kindda true. study is my main priority. but you cant avoid thinking about marriage. like i said earlier, 8 years is no long time to wait.
to be honest,i'm really curious what kind a husband i would get. a doctor maybe? or engineer? or maybe i would not getting married at all? OMG! minta jauh2x~!! one thing that God promise us is good woman is made for a good man only. that is important. so, be nice. then u would have nice husband in return.
pray everyday that u're jodoh is someone nice and religious so that he can lead to ur God's path. marriage is not a something u can play about. it's a bout giving ur love to someone and having a commitment to something. oke. stop thinking too deep. focus on ur AS exam first.
Bismillahirrahmaanirrahiim...
Ya Allah jika aku jatuh cinta,
cintakanlah aku pada seseorang yang melabuhkan cintanya padaMu,
agar bertambah kekuatanku untuk menyintaiMu
Ya Muhaimin, jika aku jatuh hati,
izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut padaMu
agar tidak terjatuh aku dalam jurang cinta nafsu...
Ya Rabbana ,jika aku jatuh hati
jagalah hatiku padanya agar tidak berpaling daripada hatiMu.....
Ya Rabbul Izzati ,jika aku rindu ,
rindukanlah aku pada seseorang yang merindui syahid di jalan Mu....
Ya Allah ,jika aku menikmati cinta kekasihMu
janganlah kenikmatan itu melebihi kenikmatan indahnya bermunajat di
sepertiga malam terakhirMu
Ya Allah , jika aku jatuh hati pada kekasihMu
jangan biarkan aku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam perjalanan panjang
menyeru manusia kepadaMu....
Ya Allah jika Kau halalkan aku merindui kekasihMu
jangan biarkan aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan aku pada cinta hakiki
dan rindu abadi hanya kepadaMu......
Amin.....
amin nader...:)
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